That kind of love is powerful. But I also know, from experience, how much it hurts when it feels like it's lost. Even for a little while.
But let's focus on MK still for just a moment longer. Then we can come back to Macaque.
You have something to try. Once you tell him you are acknowledge what he feels, try to ask him why. Ask him questions. See what he says. Walk him through it. You're going to be better at this than you think. Why? Because you care. Just help to make him feel heard. And ask him to think through it. Why is it his fault? Is it only his fault? Is there really blame to give? Where can most of the responsibility or blame be placed and why?
People change because they want to and someone supports them to do it. Someone says I know you want to be better, and I'm here to help you do just that.
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Re: Voice - Morning after the cursed game > Action
Date: 2024-06-21 09:26 pm (UTC)But let's focus on MK still for just a moment longer. Then we can come back to Macaque.
You have something to try. Once you tell him you are acknowledge what he feels, try to ask him why. Ask him questions. See what he says. Walk him through it. You're going to be better at this than you think. Why? Because you care. Just help to make him feel heard. And ask him to think through it. Why is it his fault? Is it only his fault? Is there really blame to give? Where can most of the responsibility or blame be placed and why?
People change because they want to and someone supports them to do it. Someone says I know you want to be better, and I'm here to help you do just that.